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Originally Posted by justme  Oh gosh thank you so very much!! you have no idea!!!!
I was afraid people judge me I could imagine some people still do but thank you to the ones that don't!!!!
1. no I do not need credit right now but everything is in my husbands name...two cars, the house and two CC and the debt to income is growing....I just wish I could lift some of his shoulders!
2.Ok then I will wait but did I not wake them already (unfortnately by disputing?) online or will they not find me because they do not have my address? I wasn't able to say I have never lived at the FL address because this is the only one I ever had on any CR.
3.I thought they could also sue me in the state I live now (TN with an SOL of 6yrs)....although they do not really know when I left FL......btw no judgment on the CR
4.Thank you for your "welcome" and for not judging! I will try to take a deep breath..I already feel better having finally somewhat talked about it!  |
Well since you disputed them just wait and see what happens but you can be added as an au to his cards,if you disputed in your maiden name the only thing that is the same is your ss#so i would wait a while before being added.Don't be hard on your self you made a mistake,its not the last one you'll make,life is to short enjoy it,this will pass.